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Giving amazing head isn't a one-size-fits-all routine. It's about adapting in the moment, reading the bodies cues and knowing where to roll with it. By being attentive, creative and knowledgeable you'll blow him away every time.
Always take giving head advice with a grain of salt. Mix it up in your own way. Trust your own flow. Your mouth is more amazing than you'll ever know.
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In this Guide:
Signs of Arousal
From soft to hard
What parts of him feel best
What parts of him feel best
Good Vibrations
Tongue teasing and Sucking
Wandering hands/Erogenous zones
Cool breeze
What to do with his Balls
Reaching Climax
Spit or Swallow
Advanced Techniques
Spit or Swallow
Advanced Techniques
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The Signs of Arousal
Our bodies are super responsive some days. A little more effort on others. The better you can read your partners body language the greater the pleasure you will give every time.
- Listen to them Breathe:
- We (men and women) hold our breath for a few seconds when we're having a blissful moment. We hold it longer and more frequently when we're really enjoying what's happening. And as we're building up to an orgasm.
- We take long deep breaths when we're really getting in to things and enjoying the ride.
- Our heart rates go up causing us to breathe heavier and faster when we're close to orgasm even when we are laying down still.
- Subtle movements during oral:
- We naturally tilt our pelvis forward when we're enjoy receiving. We tilt back slightly when less aroused by what's happening.
- ^- However we tilt the pelvis back when we're arching and writhing blissfully too ;)
- The entire shaft pulsates as he gets beats of pleasure you can feel on your hand and in your mouth. Just like a girls body they are more frequent and more closely together the closer to orgasm he is
- Not subtle: Tensing the thighs, arching the back, curling the toes and clenching of fists~ You are witnessing a sexual body rush. Beautiful isn't it? - Oxytocin
- Secrets of the Ball sac
<< The first sign is the ball sac shrinking upwards in to him. When he reaches orgasm the testes have worked their way forward and go up inside sitting either side of the base of his cock.You only have to cup the balls to feel where they are. You can coax them forwards, gently sliding them. It gives him a pleasant feeling (:
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From Soft to Rock hard
It only takes around 30 seconds for a full erection. The heat, warmth and softness of your mouth give instant pleasure. All you need to do is add some tightness with your lips and keep a steady consistent rhythm.
I like to go down to the base while he's soft, short and gag free. (!) I get a good grip with my lips and tongue and let the saliva flow. I suck and pull on him as I come up. Sometimes I put my hand near my lips to make it tighter. A few fast, shallow and tight strokes on the head here and there and ~Hey presto~ *bows* (hits head on wall... )
There are of course many ways to give a man an erection with your mouth and before you even get to his pants! Look out for an article all about erections coming soon ;) In all reality it's a short space of time from soft to hard It doesn't really need a great deal of creativity to get it going. Just keep it hot, wet, soft and tight.
I like to go down to the base while he's soft, short and gag free. (!) I get a good grip with my lips and tongue and let the saliva flow. I suck and pull on him as I come up. Sometimes I put my hand near my lips to make it tighter. A few fast, shallow and tight strokes on the head here and there and ~Hey presto~ *bows* (hits head on wall... )
There are of course many ways to give a man an erection with your mouth and before you even get to his pants! Look out for an article all about erections coming soon ;) In all reality it's a short space of time from soft to hard It doesn't really need a great deal of creativity to get it going. Just keep it hot, wet, soft and tight.
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What parts of him feel best?
There are Seven different areas on his groin. They vary in sensitivity and response to touch. I ran a post on adult friendfinder to ask some guys themselves what they found more sensitive. You can see the results *here* No log in required
Though it varies from person to person and through the levels of arousal it is clear that 1-3 are number one. The scrotum area close second.
The shaft requires the most attention overall but is the least sensitive. This explains why guys prefer a tight grip especially towards orgasm. The shaft is what keeps the momentum going while you wonder off in other areas.
There are Seven different areas on his groin. They vary in sensitivity and response to touch. I ran a post on adult friendfinder to ask some guys themselves what they found more sensitive. You can see the results *here* No log in required
Though it varies from person to person and through the levels of arousal it is clear that 1-3 are number one. The scrotum area close second.
The shaft requires the most attention overall but is the least sensitive. This explains why guys prefer a tight grip especially towards orgasm. The shaft is what keeps the momentum going while you wonder off in other areas.
The perineum being so close to the anus, it's a guys personal feelings that dictate his response. It rates high among those with experience.
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Good vibrations
I don't want to over rate vibrations. Outside of the fleshlight it is pleasant but subtle for them. By making the sound "mmmmmm" The vibrations run through your mouth and lips on to him. He will "mmmmmm" right back at you if you time it on one of his pulsations.
It isn't the most amazing thing you can do. But its' pleasant. A big part of that pleasure is 'Hearing' you mmm-ing and groaning.
Tongue Teasing
I don't rate porn as the best teacher, its very much for show Over the true arousing effects But in this case I really couldn't have found a more perfect example of tongue rolling. This is something I do a lot and it gets a good response every time You can do this at any speed You can do it with your mouth fully over the shaft too. The flick of your tongue as you change direction is mmm-ness on the frenulum. Circle your tongue now and then around the rim of the head for added ahhhh's ;)
Flicking your tongue rapidly works well but doesn't hold appeal if done for too long on its' own. You can also do it with your mouth closed over him.
Another version is gripping him with your lips and moving your head side to side.
Rocking your head adds a welcomed pressure to the shaft and head on the way up. Another way to achieve tongue pressure is to push him down hard on your tongue with your hand. Much easier for when you are going faster ;)
Any stroke you do with your mouth or your hand is just that bit more pleasurable if you can tighten the grip the closer to the top you are. Giving the head a bit more of a squeeze as you pass over it. You time your squeezes to the beats of an orgasm to really build him well.
Cool Breeze
It isn't the most amazing thing you can do. But its' pleasant. A big part of that pleasure is 'Hearing' you mmm-ing and groaning.
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Tongue Teasing
I don't rate porn as the best teacher, its very much for show Over the true arousing effects But in this case I really couldn't have found a more perfect example of tongue rolling. This is something I do a lot and it gets a good response every time You can do this at any speed You can do it with your mouth fully over the shaft too. The flick of your tongue as you change direction is mmm-ness on the frenulum. Circle your tongue now and then around the rim of the head for added ahhhh's ;)
Another version is gripping him with your lips and moving your head side to side.
Rocking your head adds a welcomed pressure to the shaft and head on the way up. Another way to achieve tongue pressure is to push him down hard on your tongue with your hand. Much easier for when you are going faster ;)Any stroke you do with your mouth or your hand is just that bit more pleasurable if you can tighten the grip the closer to the top you are. Giving the head a bit more of a squeeze as you pass over it. You time your squeezes to the beats of an orgasm to really build him well.
Once you know a few basic things like these there is no end to what you can come up with. When you relax and feel confident in what you are doing, you will surprise yourself all the time at how amazing you can be. (:
About Sucking
Generally speaking you suck on the way up but you can play around with it. You can hold a suck for a long time while continuing strokes either with your mouth or hand. Sucking creates an intense feeling for them. Close to orgasm you can feel pulsations shoot through the shaft from base to tip while you're sucking.
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Generally speaking you suck on the way up but you can play around with it. You can hold a suck for a long time while continuing strokes either with your mouth or hand. Sucking creates an intense feeling for them. Close to orgasm you can feel pulsations shoot through the shaft from base to tip while you're sucking.
Cool Breeze
You can send cool wisps of air along the shaft up to the head by relaxing your lips and sucking air in swiftly. If you Push your fingers and thumb together on one hand and put the tips of your fingers in your mouth. Relax your lips so they aren't tight around your fingers and suck in quickly. You should feel it straight away, when you suck air in quickly like this the air feels very cold.
I discovered this by accident, and very glad I did! Its not something that is that great if constantly repeated, but during a good build up or when hes getting close a few of those go down very well
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Wandering Hands
You hands are your supporting act during oral. They can:
You can also try increasing the pressure around the head during strokes. Give him an extra squeeze as you come up and go over the head. Think of it like the beats of an orgasm. You can suck too at this point to add to the feeling for him.
Erogenous zones
The erogenous zones are areas that can turn us on when they're touched. They become more pleasurable and responsive the more we are aroused You can see why foot fetishes aren't so strange after all~
Memorize this diagram so you can add even more pleasure to him by running your hands over the reachable erogenous zones.
You hands are your supporting act during oral. They can:
- help you add tightness when you are going too fast for a full grip with your lips (the horror of having teeth and all)
- They can keep the momentum going when you want to focus on the head or scrotum area
- They can add depth to your strokes by holding a closed hand close to your lips as you go up and down
You can also try increasing the pressure around the head during strokes. Give him an extra squeeze as you come up and go over the head. Think of it like the beats of an orgasm. You can suck too at this point to add to the feeling for him.
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The erogenous zones are areas that can turn us on when they're touched. They become more pleasurable and responsive the more we are aroused You can see why foot fetishes aren't so strange after all~
Memorize this diagram so you can add even more pleasure to him by running your hands over the reachable erogenous zones.
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What to do with his Balls
The scrotum is blissful for them. The skin is sensitive though, it doesn't like teeth. It can be sucked, licked, pinched between your lips, and pulled about. But the testes themselves cannot take much pressure. You can happily slide on to his balls and pull on them. But if you suck, tap or press them too hard you'll hurt him. I've found the most responsive parts apart from ALL of it are along the central line and along the sides close to the inner thigh area. If you ask him yourself he will say 'everything' :))
You can also coax the testes towards the front with your hand while you're giving head. Running your hand from back to front bringing the testes forward with you is always well received.
The shaft behind the balls responds to pressure and sucking really well. More about this in Giving head, a nifty little trick
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Reaching Climax
It isn't easy for most men (or women) to climax during head, so don't be too disheartened when he opts for jumping on you instead. Most find while very pleasurable it just isn't stimulating enough.
For men to reach orgasm they need you to remain tight, fast and consistent after you've built them up in your own fantastical mind blowing way ;) The slightest change in the rhythm or angle at that last hurdle can easily throw them off. So they remain on the edge and can't quite get there.
Bobbing your head at speed and remaining consistent whilst trying to keep your teeth behind your lips can be tricky!
I like doing what this girl shows. You can do it from any angle. By keeping your head fairly still you can easily stay consistent You can keep a nice suction going, work your tongue and even increase pressure as you feel him getting closer without missing a beat
Suck on the head and tease the frenulum with your tongue. Lots of warmth on the head and saliva along the shaft. Keep consistent strokes and take him over the edge. If you are in the position in the gif, try applying pressure to the shaft behind the balls with your other hand.
...You're welcome ;)
Spit or swallow
All Guys taste different. I read diet has a lot to do with it. I guess that makes sense. Some are more salty tasting, some almost sweet, some are quite watery and some are really quite potent, almost fishy - Personally I have done a bit of both with all my partners I aim to swallow but sometimes too much come out in one go~ 0_0
Spitting
Its a little disconcerting for a guy if you screw up your face, spit and say "gahhh" But it really is OK to opt for spitting. He's unlikely to mind at all. If someone does give you a hard time you can always ask them to taste it themselves (:
If it is the taste you find difficult, you can hold your mouth open and tilt forwards a bit, slide your tongue out and most of it will slide straight out as he cums.
Swallowing
If you are trying to avoid the taste, try having him further back when he cums so when he shoots it hits the back of your mouth then you can gulp it down with minimal effort
No matter whose cum you swallow it always dries your mouth out It isn't a bad feeling, but you'll want a drink pretty soon after
It isn't easy for most men (or women) to climax during head, so don't be too disheartened when he opts for jumping on you instead. Most find while very pleasurable it just isn't stimulating enough.
For men to reach orgasm they need you to remain tight, fast and consistent after you've built them up in your own fantastical mind blowing way ;) The slightest change in the rhythm or angle at that last hurdle can easily throw them off. So they remain on the edge and can't quite get there.
Bobbing your head at speed and remaining consistent whilst trying to keep your teeth behind your lips can be tricky!I like doing what this girl shows. You can do it from any angle. By keeping your head fairly still you can easily stay consistent You can keep a nice suction going, work your tongue and even increase pressure as you feel him getting closer without missing a beat
Suck on the head and tease the frenulum with your tongue. Lots of warmth on the head and saliva along the shaft. Keep consistent strokes and take him over the edge. If you are in the position in the gif, try applying pressure to the shaft behind the balls with your other hand.
...You're welcome ;)
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Spit or swallow
All Guys taste different. I read diet has a lot to do with it. I guess that makes sense. Some are more salty tasting, some almost sweet, some are quite watery and some are really quite potent, almost fishy - Personally I have done a bit of both with all my partners I aim to swallow but sometimes too much come out in one go~ 0_0
Its a little disconcerting for a guy if you screw up your face, spit and say "gahhh" But it really is OK to opt for spitting. He's unlikely to mind at all. If someone does give you a hard time you can always ask them to taste it themselves (:
If it is the taste you find difficult, you can hold your mouth open and tilt forwards a bit, slide your tongue out and most of it will slide straight out as he cums.
Swallowing
If you are trying to avoid the taste, try having him further back when he cums so when he shoots it hits the back of your mouth then you can gulp it down with minimal effort
No matter whose cum you swallow it always dries your mouth out It isn't a bad feeling, but you'll want a drink pretty soon after
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A Final Word
Articles like these take ten minutes to read and give you tonnes of information to ponder. But in real time they happen in seconds. So many questions fade away just by doing it. You don't have to experiment with everything in one night, so relax. No need to over think. You'll be pleasantly surprised how easily it all falls in place.
If you have questions you have the option to leave anonymous comments below or you can contact me for a private chat by email synndarella@gmail.com
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Major appreciation to:
Gifporntube.com for all the gifs in this article. The Science Photo Library for the Erogenous zones image
health-reply.com for the Scrotum image
Thank you very much :)
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome :)
DeleteGreat tips! Definitely going to try these out.
ReplyDeleteThank you :) I'm just hoping I've given enough information. Don't be surprised if this gets updated shortly :)
DeleteThat was fabulous!
ReplyDeleteThanks! I'm glad you liked it (:
DeleteI have to say this has been the best described way...i have the hardest time explaining to my friends because i tend to concentrate a lot since i really enjoy it. You've basically described all the things i was trying to tell my friends XD
ReplyDeleteI'll definitely show this so i dont have to explain to much myself.
And i'm glad someone can describe everything without saying a lot but just enough (unlike me it would take hours haha)
The Erogenous zones diagram is helpful too, kinda makes sense since i give a quick bite on his nipple after just to give him an extra "your welcome" in the morning ;)
Ahh thanks! You really made me smile. It took me SO long to write, best part of a month! Most of that time was editing and re-editing :) I'm really pleased with how it turned out (finally) so when I read this comments it really has made my day! Thanks so much x
Deleteamazing tips! i love to give orals and this has given me greats ideas to play with. once i had an ice cube in my mouth and soon after i started blowing my partner, the temperature chances made him super horny it felt like a porn vid!
ReplyDeletethanks so much for the info so well put together !
You're welcome, thanks for the compliment!
DeleteIce! I could've put that in there really, very true. Its nice running it along the body too especially when you've built up a lot of heat between you. Hmmm got my mind wondering now, its' that time of night lol :)
Is it bad to suck fast consistently?
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the moment really and how hard you're sucking. That's why its good to pay attention to the subtle movements of his pelvis. Watching for him to tilt back slightly.
DeleteFor instance: When he's highly aroused and close to climax its' perfect.. but you can go too fast and too hard on the sucking for him to cum. Releasing the pressure a little for a few strokes makes a world of difference. On the other hand some nights Only hard and fast consistantly will do.
Personally I like head to last a while so I will go hard sucking, fast consistent strokes during, but just to get him close and then wind him down and back up again.
HOnestly. The key to it all is in his body language. Pay close attention to that and you'll instinctively know when its' working and when to ease off.